“I don’t have the strength to bear two children a year”: how Soviet women asked to lift the abortion ban

In 1920, the USSR became the first country to legalize abortions at the request of a woman, but four years later the right to abortion was limited, and in 1936 there came out a decree banning abortions altogether. In this article, gender researcher Sasha Talaver tells how the abortion ban in the USSR affected women. Soviet women themselves talk about the same thing in their letters to the government with requests to lift the abortion ban. We publish excerpts from those letters here.

“We ask you to repeal the law banning abortions. Understand one thing, that if a woman does not want to have a child, she will not rest on this, she will look for a way to free herself from pregnancy. And this leads to serious consequences for a woman — she remains crippled or dies, leaving her children orphans …”

“I have not yet forgotten the pain of previous births.” “I don’t have the strength to bear two children a year.” “I am not a machine that produces children twice a year.” These are quotes from letters by Soviet women that were used to lobby for the decriminalization of abortion in the USSR in 1955.

Abortion in the USSR was allowed in 1920, banned in 1936 and allowed again in 1955. Despite the hopes of the authorities, the 1936 ban did not lead to a sustainable increase in the birth rate. As demographer Anatoly Vishnevsky wrote, after a brief increase in the number of births in the late 1930s, the figures began to decline again. The ban itself could not overcome the socio-economic difficulties that families faced: poverty, lack of housing, lack of real assistance for large families. Women continued to look for ways to avoid unwanted pregnancies, often at risk to their own lives.

“My first child is 4 years old, the second is breastfed. I went to an abortion commission, but was refused due to the lack of medical indications. What consolation will a third child bring me if the second is breastfed and clingy?.. I have not yet forgotten the pain of my previous births. If I got pregnant due to my negligence and at the wrong time, this does not mean that I should be mercilessly required to give birth to a third child. I am only 25 years old, why should I rush?…”

Vishnevsky emphasized that a policy based on prohibitions, rather than support, could not be effective. Without improving living conditions and real care for motherhood, the birth rate remained low. In this sense, the abortion ban was not only repressive in its nature, but also an ineffective tool for demographic regulation. It seems that the Russian authorities still remember this lesson, and therefore do not risk banning abortion completely yet.

These letters are remarkable not only because they show the grave consequences of the abortion ban and the desperate situation of mothers with many children who are ready to self-abort, debunking the myth that only selfish young cat ladies do that. But also because of the language of the description of motherhood.

“I kindly ask you, as a mother of four children, all of preschool age: 6, 4, 3 years old and 5 months old, to allow me to have a medical abortion. I am in my third month of pregnancy, and the last child is only 5 months old. I am tired, I need to rest a little. After all, I am not a machine that produces children twice a year!”

In these letters there is no trace of the myth that surrounds motherhood as a natural need of a woman, as the happiness of self-realization. No, this is a description of hard work, pain — the denaturalization of motherhood. This language is consonant, for example, with the texts of Kollontai, who was convinced that the maternal instinct is a product of certain circumstances and will inevitably transform with the change in the economic order.

Perhaps she was right.

“I ask that the 6th city hospital be allowed to perform a medical abortion on me. The Saratov abortion commission finds me not ill enough for this operation. I do not consider myself ill, but now I cannot give birth to a fifth child and will not allow this, even if I have to risk my life. The medical commission refused me. There is now only one way out: to have an abortion myself. The criminal code will not prosecute me. I am afraid that there will be no one to prosecute, there is no practice!”

Along with the decriminalization of abortions in the USSR, a large campaign to glorify motherhood was launched. It was as if the officials who reluctantly allowed abortion saw a dangerous signal in these letters and began active work to equate motherhood with happiness, rather than motherhood with unpaid, hard (and often thankless) labor.

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